As my hair grows longer I am experiencing an increased ability to appreciate the beauty in the hearts of others...and myself.
Ironically I am taking on a leadership role in a conservative and philanthropic organization where my growing hair seems to be of concern.   Would my leadership ability in this group be compromised by my lengthening wild curls which seem to grow with an empathic ability and desires aligned with its core mission?
Perhaps it is just a coincidence, my empathy is growing regardless of my hair, and the buzz cut of my youth will allow me to me a more effective listener and giver.
But I think of Biblical Sampson.  And of circumcision...the message clear; "Man up at age zero, we own your most sensitive parts and you-- so stop your crying, do what we say and get used to it."
Much of my life I have shrunk myself to make others comfortable.  Obsequious professional requests to allow physicians to keep their licenses for example.  "Please can we change this drug" code for "not kill our patient?"
Personal strength and synergy.   Am I shelving my vitality with a dying organization when I should be building a new one where individuality and synergy are cultivated to positively affect our country rather than the "clone and control" hierarchical methodology of past generations which is obviously floundering.
I believe all ages, abilities and talents can and should be working together to continuously better our society.  I happen to appreciate the conservative and founding values of this great nation and of the philanthropic organization I admire and am proud to be a member.
But do I have to cut my hair?